On Twitter, Google’s Gary Illyes said that it was not necessary to change the links to your HTTP pages when you switch your website to HTTPS:
@pip_net if your redirects are properly implemented, the benefit from doing that is so minimal that IMO it's not worth it.
— Gary Illyes (@methode) July 7, 2015
In other words, you don’t have to ask the websites that link to your site to change the links from HTTP to HTTPS.
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